The Generous Employer (click here)

Welcome
* Thanks for reading this on-line version of our weekly worship.
* To see a shortened version of this service go to https://youtu.be/dq7Juv5PYa4

Call to Worship
One: Just as sunrise breaks through the darkness each day,
Many: So God’s grace, mercy and justice shine forth.

One: We gather together, with devotion and doubt,
with weariness and wonder;
Many: trusting that God’s peace and love are present here.

One: Come and worship as you are, knowing you are loved.
Many: We come rejoicing, to praise God’s holy name. 

Opening Prayers
Loving God, compassionate Son, healing Spirit,
You meet us in so many places and in so many different ways,
when our need is deep and we long for you,
and when we think we can manage on our own.
You draw near to us in kindness,
regardless of our state or condition.
You turn weeping into laughter, sorrow into joy, death into life.
You speak a word of challenge and a word of comfort
to draw us to you.
In gratitude, we come before you this day,
to seek your word for us,
and to enjoy your gift of life in its fullness.
[Receive our praise and our prayers this day
offered in the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.] (Video)

God, you are the giver of all good gifts,
yet we confess that our own generosity is limited.
We share what we have, but often reluctantly.
We complain about our lot.
We compare ourselves to others
and see what they have that we lack.
We fear running short of things
rather than trusting your attention to our needs.
Forgive us our worries about tomorrow
and give us generous hearts that trust in you.

Remind us again that your is from everlasting to everlasting.
Your generous love reaches out to embrace everyone.
We thank you that in Christ,
we are forgiven and set free to begin again.
Accept the worship we bring as your people gathered this morning.
Amen

Hymn: Amazing Grace (My Chains are Gone)

Prayer for Understanding
Holy, healing God,
your thoughts are not our thoughts, and your ways are not our ways.
As we hear your Word read and proclaimed, guide us by your Spirit,
so that our thoughts and our ways are transformed by your grace,
through Christ, your Living Word. Amen.

Scripture

Matthew 20:1-16 – Parable of the Vineyard

This parable follows Jesus’ welcome of children into the Kingdom of God who have nothing
And Jesus encounter with a rich young man who wants eternal life who has everything , but the courage to leave his wealth behind to follow Jesus.


Sermon: The Generous Employer

In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen

Most people who I have met believe that it is “right” to be paid fairly for the work that one does. When this doesn’t happen, we feel cheated and undervalued as an employee. This has led to employee protests, strikes, and work to rule campaigns in various jobs and occupations.

Our wages we believe represent what our employers and in many ways what our society believes our labor is worth. Although we know that is not always the case.

We all have our own opinions as to who is underpaid and who is overpaid in our society. One extreme example was demonstrated in boxer Mike Tyson 1995 fight against Peter McNeeley in Las Vegas Nevada. Tyson was paid $22,000,000 for the 89 second win over McNeeley. McNeeley was paid $400,000 for the 89 second fight. And those who set up and cleaned up the MGM Grand Hotel for the event were paid less than $5.00 /hr. Those making minimum wage would only have made only $0.12 during the 89 sec. fight.

I know this is an extreme example, but it highlights the reality of the value our society places on different kinds of work by way of material compensation for that work.

As with all of Jesus’ parables, his stories always have a different twist to them. His perspective doesn’t always go along with the conventional wisdom or practices of our time. That is why the ending of the story is unexpected. It does not follow the conventional thinking of “just pay for a fair work day.”

At the end of work day, each laborer is paid a Roman denarius.

A denarius was what a day’s wages was worth in Jesus’ day. With it one could take care of one’s family. The wage that the Landowner paid would be especially helpful to the extremely poor, who in fact, were standing around idle in the marketplace. The ones hired last would have included widows, orphans, the sick, disabled, and newcomers to the community who were hardly ever given work.

They were probably expecting to be paid very little, but what a surprise and relief to them when they received their generous gift of the denarius, a day’s pay.

The landowner goes out of his way to meet the needs of the poor in his community. The Landowner goes out his way to meet and exceed the Jewish Laws in Deuteronomy 24 regarding the treatment of laborers, aliens, widows, and the poor in the community.

The pay offered by the Landowner in our story is not based on the hours worked, but rather is based purely upon what the employer offers to each group.

The first group agrees to work for the daily wage of denarius. The midday laborers agree to work for “what is right or just” which is not clearly defined, and for the last group no wages are agreed upon.

At the end of the day, everyone from the first called to work to those called last to work are paid the same wage.

From a modern business perspective, all laborers being paid the same runs counter to our current capitalist model of economics. It is unsettling to us with our 21st century sensibilities, for no one in our society pays everyone the same wage regardless of how many hours they worked. We hardly, if ever, will one run across an employer who is THAT generous. That is why the parable doesn’t connect with our “JUST PAY FOR FAIR WORK DAY” practice.

While the intent of the parable is not to propose a new economic system for our society, although some have suggested it does, it does join a significant amount of Biblical teaching on economics.

You have God creating for Israel before it settles the Promised Land new patterns for the fair treatment of workers, the establishment of a social net to care for the least in the society. God warns Israel of how wealth can too easily become an idol. Israel is reminded again and again that it was freed from unjust slavery in Egypt by God almighty acts.

In the New Testament, there is more talk about wealth than sexuality. There is advice to indentured servants and their bosses in how to live with each other. Jesus teaches that his followers are to be servants not tyrannical Lord’s over one another. The lowest household slave is raised to a position of honor.

If we are wise, then we will not be afraid to humbly listen and reflect upon what the Scriptures teaches us about Kingdom of God economics.

In Jesus’ parable, the focus is on the Landowner’s actions toward his labour force. God is the landowner and the laborers are various groups who come into God’s kingdom at different times.

When the Landowner pays all the workers the same amount and the end of the day, the first group becomes upset with the generosity of the landowner.

My guess is that there is some part of each of us who are like those who grumbled, questioned, and told the landowner that it was unfair to pay everyone the same wage.

The first group acts as those they have been deceived by the Landowner are being treated unfairly by him. But in our story, the group who complains is the same group who agrees to work for a denarius.

The others agree to work for “What is right” and they accept that. There is no deception and nothing unfair done by the landowner here.

The first group of laborers are the only ones to complain about the landowner in the parable. The complainers in the story represent the pharisees who question and criticize Jesus at every turn for not following agreeing with or following their perceptions of who God is and how they expect God to act.

Like the Pharisees before us, our imperfect perceptions of God get in the way of fully understanding just how gracious and loving God is to all.

We are confronted with the creative Tension between God’s Truth and God’s Grace. The landowner follows the rules laid out my Moses, but also follows God’s command to do justice and love neighbor as self.

The parable by focusing on God’s gracious and generous character highlights the new spiritual economy in the Kingdom of God that triumphs and supersedes all understandings human merit and value.

Our society’s reward for work system is so much a part of the way we think that we have a difficult time with God’s grace and generosity. We have difficulty with grace, because you can’t work for it, or earn it, and you can’t ever repay God for it. Our birth, lives, families, our work, gifts, opportunities, friends, talents, and our salvation are God’s gracious gifts to us that flow out God’s generous heart to us.

God’s generous and gracious character is a stumbling block for anyone who refuses to give up their own or our society’s ideas of justice and merit. It doesn’t matter how long or how hard a person has worked within the church. What matters is “have we responded to the gracious call of God to work in his vineyard today?”

Eduard Schweizer, a biblical theologian once wrote…
“The `person’ who imports `their’ own ideas of what is right and just cannot understand this (that is God’s grace). To measure God’s goodness by the standard of people’s works does not do justice to either. Anyone who fails to understand that God gives infinitely more than a just wage also fails to understand that the reward given by God is an expression of his goodness.” (Schweizer, Matthew, p. 393)”

The landowner exerts his authority over all who have worked for Him. To the workers who grumble at his generosity, the landowner declares
“Take what belongs to you and go; I choose to give to this last the same as I give to you.
Am I not allowed to do what I choose with what belongs to me? Or are you envious because I am generous?’
God’s generous and gracious character is to have a profound mark and effect every aspect of our lives.

In all things, we are to celebrate and focus on the spiritual plenty that God’s gives to us in Christ. We all stand on equal footing at the cross.

We all need God’s Grace, God’s Mercy, and God’s abundant care for us. God as our Creator has claim on each person.

If we live in God’s grace, then we will want to follow God’s demonstration of his love and mercy towards all people.

We celebrate the plenty of an expanded vision and understanding of God and his Kingdom that leads us to see the needs of others as well as our own.

We welcome all who God welcomes into in the labor force of Kingdom of God, be it those who have worked long and hard in God’s vineyard, or whether it be those who come to work at the “11th hour.”

We celebrate God’s gracious generosity, which creates a new alternative community that opposes our world’s emphasis on valuing some more than others. The church, like Israel, stands as a beacon of hope, a people who live out God’s graciousness in all their relationships. A people who when hurting themselves do not cease to help others who are hurting.

And maybe, just maybe, we value God’s teaching on wealth and economics more than our society’s so that that we might be more vocal and active advocates for those who struggle financially in our communities.

The parable ends with the declaration,
“So the last will be first, and the first will be last.” (Mt 20:16).

One could hear that as a threat or a warning to get in step with God and be better people who don’t complain about God’s generous character.

Or you one can hear it a statement of blessing from God to those who have embraced His gracious upside down and right side up Kingdom economics.

May we be followers of Jesus Christ, who seek to embrace and embody the gracious character God, in our everyday lives.

AMEN.

song: Come thou fount of every blessing Sung by Sarah Noëlle

Moment for Mission – International Day of Prayer for Peace
Today, there are millions of people around the world
living in conflict-affected countries.
Many have been displaced from their homes
and have limited access to basic needs.
Children are unable to go to school.
Families do not have enough food to eat.
There is no telling when home might be safe again.
Presbyterian World Service & Development (PWS&D)
continuously provides emergency relief in conflict-affected areas.
By reaching out to the most vulnerable
to address immediate needs such as food, shelter, and water and sanitation,
as well as long-term needs, such as
livelihood recovery, education and psychosocial support,
we help to restore strength and hope for
the future for the world’s most vulnerable.
PWS&D responds to conflict

Prayers of the People
God of Hope,
When the world is bleak and dim, you pierce the shadows with light.
You help us see new paths and possibilities.
For hope in times of despair, for clarity when we felt confused,
for a way forward when we thought all was lost,
we give you thanks.
We pray today for those who feel hopeless;
or those who are sick or dying;
for those who mourn; and for those weighed down by heavy burdens.
May each of us know and share your gift of hope.

God of Peace,
All around us there is conflict: in our world, our communities,
our families, even our closest relationships.
We thank you for steps toward reconciliation in our lives,
our communities, and among peoples of different cultures and histories.
We pray today for places where pain, violence and cruelty
seem to have the upper hand.
May each of us know and share your gift of peace.

God of Joy,
We give you thanks for moments of delight and occasions of celebration;
for happy gatherings, gentle solitude, pleasure given and received;
for laugher, friendship, and love.
We remember those who do not taste such joy;
those who are lonely or bitter, hurt, or difficult to love.
May each of us know and share your gift of joy.

God of Love,
In Jesus Christ, your love was born in a human life.
Jesus was rooted in a particular family,
yet his love stretched far beyond to include outsiders a
and those rejected by others.
We are so grateful to be part of his circle.
We pray for our families, those closest to us or and anyone estranged.
We pray for friends and for acquaintances, strangers,
for those very different from ourselves, and even for our enemies.
Help us draw our circles of affection wider,
seeing our kinship with all people.
May each of us know and share your gift of love.

Hear us now as we pray in silence for those who have come to mind this day.
(Silence for at least 15 seconds.)
And now, in one voice, we pray the prayer that Jesus taught.

Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name, your kingdom come,
your will be done, on earth as in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.
Save us from the time of trial and deliver us from evil.
For the kingdom, the power, and the glory
are yours now and forever. Amen..

Song: By Grace Alone

Charge and Benediction (2 Cor 13.13, The Message)

We go to be laborers
in God’s Vineyard in the world.

We go to be gracious laborers supporting each other.

We go to witnesses to God’s gracious character.

May the amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ,
the extravagant love of God,
and the intimate friendship with the Holy Spirit
be with all of you.

Congregational Blessing: “The Peace of Christ be with You”

Prayer Partnership

Monday, September 21 (International Day of Peace) We pray for the safety and well-being of those living in conflict situations around the world and that hear the call to be peacemakers and to speak out against forces of violence.

Tuesday, September 22 We pray for justice and safety of all the minority groups in India who are persecuted for their faith.

Wednesday, September 23 We pray for Cyclical PCC participants who are gathering to prepare to learn about and work towards starting new worshipping communities.

Thursday, September 24 We pray for peace for those affected by ongoing conflict around the world as Presbyterian World Service & Development provides emergency assistance.

Friday, September 25 We pray for campus ministries’ chaplains and volunteers and the congregations that support these ministries that show God’s love and care to young adults facing many stresses and challenges.

Saturday, September 26 We give thanks for the faithful generosity of congregations across Canada as we share in mission and ministry together through Presbyterians Sharing.

Living in a Paradoxical World (click here)

Welcome
* Thanks for reading this on-line version of our weekly worship.
* To see a shortened version of this service go to
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DaNJURZMKc

Call to Worship (Psalm 33:20-22)

Leader: Our souls waits for the LORD;
he is our help and shield.

People: Our heart is glad in God,
because we trust in God’s holy name.

Leader: Let your steadfast love, O LORD,
be upon us, even as we hope in you.

Opening Prayers

Almighty God, we gather to worship you, to lift our voices in praise.
We come with our questions and our needs,
seeking your guidance for our lives.
We come desiring to be enabled to accept your answers
and to believe that all things do work together for our highest good.
For you alone know all things,
things that are beyond our understanding,
Things too wonderful for us to understand in this life.
Build us up in faith, so that whatever we face,
we may face them with the confidence
that you never forsake or abandon us.
Lift up our faith so that we may in all things witness to your love
revealed to us in Jesus Christ.

Merciful God, whose care never ceases, we come to you as we are.
We are tired from trying to do more than we can manage.
We are anxious about problems which go unresolved.
We are worried about events beyond our control.
We do not easily let go.
For mistakes we cannot redeem,
for tasks left undone, for uncertain goals,
we need your forgiveness and ask for your understanding.
For recovery of strength and enthusiasm, we pray for your Spirit.
For fullness of life, generous hearts, and contented souls,
we pray to be followers of Christ Jesus.

In your mercy, restore us and lead us.
Forgive us God of love and mercy,
Remind us your promise from your servant John who declared…
that if we confess our sins,
You, who are faithful and just,
will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

And now O God, offer you our worship in the name of Christ our Lord.
Amen.

Hymn: Great is thy Faithfulness

Prayer for Understanding
God of all knowledge, prepare our hearts and minds to receive your wisdom. Quiet in us all distracting thoughts so that we may hear your Word, and be strengthened to follow your way. In the name of Christ we pray. Amen.

Scripture

Ecclesiastes 7:15-29: The Preacher Addresses the Riddles of Life

Matthew 5:6, 10, 17-20:
Sermon on the Mount. Blessings and challenges of seeking and following God

Song: You Are God Alone-Phillips, Craig, & Dean


Sermon: Living in a Paradoxical World

The Preacher who wrote Ecclesiastes humbly recognizes that there are many things about living in time that were difficult to wrap his head around.

For example, why do wise and caring people suffer and why do foolish uncaring people prosper?

Why is it that so many choose to live foolishly when there is so much information to help us live wisely? I think the Preacher would have been just as concerned about the foolishness of our time as he was with what he observed in his.

The Preacher shares three wise ways for living in our paradoxical world that can help us.

First, don’t deceive yourself in thinking you can manipulate God. The Preacher says in verse 16,
“Do not be too righteous, and do not act too wise; why should you destroy yourself?”

The language that the Preacher is using here is ironic. He is talking about a person who thinks they are far more righteous and wise than they actually are.

The Preacher is talking about Pharisaical righteousness and wisdom. The Pharisees thought that by being extremely righteous or good, they could persuade God to act as they wanted him to act.

The Pharisees were trying to manipulate God. They believed if enough Pharisees were good enough and followed the laws to the letter, then God would have to send the Messiah and make everything in the world “Right.”

They felt a huge burden to try to persuade God to bring peace and restoration to Israel. Sadly, it was unnecessary. The many hours spent making sure they and others got everything right could have been spent showing mercy and helping others know God.

The Preacher warns us of being too righteous as to believe you can manipulate God by being good, or having the right beliefs, and right practices. There is certainly a place for right belief, right practice, and the right intentions in the Christian faith or any other faith for that matter.

But the problem comes when we think we can manipulate God by doing, thinking, and saying the right stuff. Many in the Bible tried to do this and all of them failed miserably.

Our world knows the harm that various forms of religious extremism have caused.
For example, Boxer Mohamed Ali, was asked by a reporter after 9/11 how he felt as a devout Muslim of having Osama Ben Laden as part of his religious family. He quickly responded to the reporter by asking him how he felt about having Adolf Hitler as part of his Christian family.

The point that the Preacher is making in verse 16 is the danger of being so extreme in your belief system that you believe that you can manipulate God!

And can we manipulate God? No! God is God and we are not. God is in control and not us. The Preacher declares this numerous times in Ecclesiastes. God is the only one who can straighten out our crooked world not us. (Ecclesiastes 1:15, 7:13).

The one who tries to manipulate God into to do anything God will not do will end up literally destroying themselves trying to do the impossible. The Preacher warns us to avoid this extreme as it doesn’t help us to live in faithfully in this crazy world of ours.

Second, the Preacher warns us of going to the opposite extreme of abandoning God. The Preacher says in verse 17,
“Do not be too wicked, and do not be a fool; why should you die before your time?

Is the Preacher suggesting that it is okay to be a little wicked, just don’t be overly wicked? Is that really what he is saying? I doubt that you could provide a good Biblical rationale for that, although many have tried.

The point of the Preacher is that going to the other extreme and giving up on God, doing your own thing whether God approves or not, is not going to help you live with the paradoxes of life any more than thinking you have all the answers.

Those who face tragedy and disappointment struggle with the temptation of calling it quits with God. Perhaps you like many others have asked
“What’s the point of following all the rules, going to church, doing the religious thing, what is there to show for it?
Does anything change in this world if I am good or do my own thing?”

This kind of thinking leads to despair compared to the overly confident self-righteous person. And people who are despairing and hopeless do all kinds of foolish, harmful, and wicked things to themselves and others, because there are no moral boundaries to guide and direct them anymore. And how tragic it is when one gets to that point.

That is why we pray in the Lord’s Prayer for God to save us from the Time Trial or that point where we want to give up on God. Only tragedy can follow that decision as we have seen so many times in our world lately.

So, if neither self-righteousness nor self-indulgence helps us make sense of our paradoxical world, then what does?
In verse 18, the Preacher offers us a third and middle way to living in our paradoxical world.
He says,
“It is good that you should take hold of the one, without letting go of the other; for the one who fears God shall succeed with both.”

The best way of living in our paradoxical world is the middle way of faith. Here both extremes are held in a kind of creative tension so we can walk between them.

Or to use a similar kind of illustration, think of a tight rope walker walking with a long pole that is weighted at either end that helps the walker to walk on the thin cable.

On one hand, the Preacher holds up the Bible to call to us to walk in a right relationship with God. This includes believing in certain things, doing certain things, and being motivated by a love of God and love of neighbor.

Our right relationship with God is a Gift of God, and not a result of anything we do or have done for God. Therefore, there is no room for us to believe we can manipulate God for any reason.

The Bible also reminds us we are called to do good work in response to what God has done for us. And the mystery of God’s will is that God uses our puny efforts to fulfill his larger plans and desires for our world.

On the other hand, the Bible reminds us that we fall short of God’s good intentions because we sin against God and against one another. God has provided a way of forward for us to connect with God through Christ’s work on the cross. God continually reminds us that our work done for Him is never in meaningless or hopeless.

Therefore we keep both extremes of righteousness and sinfulness, wisdom and foolishness in a kind of creative tension or balance with each other.

We see other forms of this creative tension or balancing act when it comes to other aspects of Christian faith.

I have already mentioned faith and works, but we also hold Grace and Truth in tension. Love and Law are held in creative tension. Social Action and Evangelism, God’s Sovereignty of God and human free will, Old Testament with New Testaments, Past, Present, and Future are held in creative tension. Justice and Mercy; Suffering and Victory, Joy and Sorrow.

These are all held in creative tension with each other. Either extreme leads to a misunderstanding of who God is and leads to a misunderstanding of what God says is ultimately good for us.

Jesus in his life and work demonstrates to us how to live faithfully live with the paradoxes of life, keeping them in balance that helps us to navigate and live faithfully in our times.

He embodied and taught God’s truth and embodied demonstrated God’s grace to all.

He upheld the Law, but called the extreme law-keepers to embrace and show God’s mercy.

He did not reject those who sinned, but forgave them and called them to turn from their foolishness and to follow God as He did.
He called us to hunger and thirst for God’s ways above anything else so we would experience God’s love and grace in deeper more fulfilling ways. Jesus also knew that in following his narrow and middle way of being faithful to God, we would experience opposition from those who reject God or who think they can manipulate God to their own ends.

The wisdom of the Preacher points us to the wisdom of Jesus, who calls each of us to walk the uncomfortable, narrow, and middle way that leads to fulfillment, blessing and success.

The Preacher reminds us
for the one who fears God shall succeed with both.
May God continue to grant us the wisdom to live in these challenging times of ours.
AMEN!

Moment for Mission – A Light in the Community

Kenora Fellowship Centre is one of nine Indigenous ministries supported by generous gifts made to Presbyterians Sharing.

Known in the community as “A /na/mie/wi/gum/mig,” meaning House of Prayer in the Ojibway language, the drop-in centre offers basic essential services such as food, shelter, showers, clothing, laundry and transportation.

In addition to offering skills training courses and health and wellness programs.

Even more, the centre offers a place of hope, encouragement and safety for those who come through its doors, many of whom are displaced, living in poverty or struggling with addiction and mental health issues.

Please pray that this ministry would continue to be a light in the community and a safe space where people can find the healing love of Christ.
Presbyterians Sharing reaches out with the love of Christ

Prayers of the People

God of light and hope,
we pray for those who face lives filled with darkness:
those who suffer in body, mind, and spirit;
those bent under burdens of sorrow;
those who cannot see the way ahead.
We pray for those who accompany others in dark times and places;
For those who comfort the grieving, and work for healing and new possibilities.
May all these find their darkness transformed by your presence.
Lord in your mercy,
Hear our Prayer

God of liberation and justice,
we pray for those who suffer abuse, violence, or injustice
at the hands of powerful people or forces in their lives,
and for those who have been betrayed by people entrusted with their care.
Stir in all people a deep respect for life.
Encourage those who struggle for freedom,
and work for truth to be heard and reconciliation achieved.
Lord in your mercy,
Hear our Prayer


God of peace and promise,
we pray for those who work for peace in the world,
for leaders and decision makers,
for those who hold power and can make a difference in their communities,
and for those who make, interpret, and enforce laws.
Awaken a respect for the needs of the most vulnerable, including the earth and its fragile balances.
Lord in your mercy,
Hear our Prayer

God of wisdom and understanding,
we pray for those who misunderstand the words and actions of others,
and for those who are misunderstood.
We pray for those who teach, and those who learn,
especially those who struggle and are afraid to ask for help.
In this challenging school year,
guide teachers and students in new patterns of learning
and keep each one safe and healthy.
Lord in your mercy,
Hear our Prayer

God of forgiveness and reconciliation;
we pray for those we have hurt or offended
and for those to whom we have been unkind.
We pray for those who have hurt us, or been careless with our feelings.
Work in our lives to redeem broken relationships.
Shape us into gracious and forgiving people.
Lord in your mercy,
Hear our Prayer

In silence we name before you other concerns on our minds today…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

And now we pray together as Jesus taught us;


Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name, your kingdom come,
your will be done, on earth as in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.

Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.
Save us from the time of trial and deliver us from evil.
For the kingdom, the power, and the glory
are yours now and forever. Amen..

Song: O Master Let me walk with thee

Charge and Benediction

We go to walk
the uncomfortable middle road of faith
which is the best way to live faithfully
for Christ in our paradoxical world

And now
May the peace of God,
which passes all understanding,
keep your hearts and minds
in the knowledge and love of God,
and of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord;

Congregational Blessing “Peace of Christ be with you”

Prayer Partnership

Monday, September 14 We pray for the faculties and staffs of our theological colleges as they work to provide academic programs to support the leadership needs of congregations across Canada.

Tuesday, September 15 We pray for the Continuing Education Grants Committee which meets this month.

Wednesday, September 16 We give thanks for those whose call has included the call to teach, research and write for the benefit of others.

Thursday, September 17 We thank God for the gift of communion. May the Lord’s Supper be celebrated as a sign of our unity in Christ and a means to grow together in love.

Friday, September 18 We thank God for music, and the choir members and musicians who share their gifts at church on Sunday mornings.

Saturday, September 19 (WCC Week of Prayer for Peace in Palestine and Israel) We pray for a just peace in Palestine and Israel so that all children may grow up in a safe place with equal opportunities to thrive.

Roller Coaster Emotions (click here)

Welcome
* Thanks for reading this on-line version of our weekly worship.
* To see a shortened version of this service go to either . . .
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9N2RE9Z-IA&t=26s

Call to Worship (Psalm 131:1-3)


Opening Prayers
Holy and loving One, God of might and mercy,
The heavens and the earth are full of your glory.
Your love transforms our lives.
You take darkness and give light.
You take grief and give healing.
You take fatigue and give strength.
You take fear and give courage.
You take death and give new life.
So we come before you in worship,
handing over to you all that weighs us down,
waiting for your refreshing gifts. (In Christ we pray, Amen)

Today we lay before the burden of our guilt and sin,
We lay before your throne of grace,
The sin of not loving others
as you have shown us to do in Christ.
The sin of not taking advantage of opportunities
to care, serve, bless, and witness to the hope
that you have given to us in Christ.
We confess the moments this week
when we have not been honest with you, with others and ourselves in how we are feeling
Forgive us when we have not acknowledged our need
for your and others grace, love, hope and strength.
Forgive us when have been foolish and not reached out for help and support.
We lay before you now in silence the specific burdens we carry today.

Remind us there is nothing in all creation
that can separate us from you through Christ,
who lived, died and rose again to keep us close to you.
Renew us in this time of worship, we pray,
so that we may serve you in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Hymn: You are my all in all

Prayer for Understanding
God ever present,
yet ever new, guide us by your Word and Spirit,
so that in your light, we may see clearly what you call us to do.
In your truth, may we know how best to follow you,
and in doing so, find true peace through Christ, your living Word.
Amen.

Scripture
Psalm 13:1-6 A prayer for deliverance from one’s enemies

John 11:28-37 Jesus weeps at death of his friend Lazarus

Sermon: Roller Coaster Emotions

How many of you like roller coasters? I have had moments in my life when I couldn’t wait to try the newest and most thrilling ride going. The adventure of breathless drops, unexpected turns, thrilling hair messing loops, all of it ending way too soon. At the end of the ride, we normally would find ourselves getting back in line to ride again.

One year Elias and his uncle Dane managed to ride Space Mountain at Disneyland 6 times in an hour. I lasted for only four. When my kids were younger, I wondered why my mother did not ride with us anymore. I understand that now.

These days I have come to associate Roller Coasters more with the emotional journeys we take in life and not with the rides of my youth. Although a good roller coaster still has a certain appeal to me.

Kathy and I were talking one night at dinner at how much of an emotional roller coaster ride the past months have been. In talking to each other about our responses to the pandemic and what we have observed in other. We concluded that we are grieving in different ways the loss of something or someone that is leading to various kinds of behavior both wise and foolish.

We have experienced the loss of the “pre-Covid normal,” the disruption of relationships and the addition social distancing, the loss of or the changes in the patterns of work, school, recreation, socializing, volunteering.

We have experienced the loss of the freedom of just leaving your house to do whatever without having to think about bringing a mask, sanitizer with you and the risks now associated with normal events.

Many of have experienced the death of loved ones and the pandemic has made arranging the funerals more difficult. We are all grieving in this time. We are experiencing the same Covid storm, but we are in riding it out in different boats.

The standard for looking at grief for over 50 years has been to look at the research of the Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in her book “On death and dying.”
Here Dr. Kubler-Ross identified stages, which she later changed to phases or aspects of grief because they don’t always occur one after the other in a straight line, but we experience them in different ways, intensities, and times.

The stages or phases of grief in her research are 1) Denial, 2) Anger, 3) Bargaining, 4) Depression,
5) Acceptance.

Others have gone to expand Dr. Kubler-Ross five phases to seven phases. When I read them see how many you have experienced?
1) Shock and denial. This is a state of disbelief and numbed feelings.

2) Pain and guilt. You may feel that the loss is unbearable and that you’re making other people’s lives harder because of your feelings and needs.

3) Anger and bargaining. You may lash out, telling God or a higher power that you’ll do anything they ask if they’ll only grant you relief from these feelings.

4) Depression. This may be a period of isolation and loneliness during which you process and reflect on the loss.

5) The upward turn. At this point, the stages of grief like anger and pain have died down, and you’re left in a more calm and relaxed state.

6) Reconstruction and working through. You can begin to put the pieces of your life back together and carry forward.

7) Acceptance and hope. This is a very gradual acceptance of the new way of life and a feeling of possibility in the future.
(source: https://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief

I suspect we could go the list of phases and identify people who we know who are experiences those phases of grief. And if you are honest, you could point to the different phases you have experienced this week and even today.

At the start of the grieving process that intensity of each phase is greater and with time the intensity lessons until we reach some sort acceptance, or may be more accurately a co-existence with our loss.

When you read through the Gospels, you find these stages of grief and loss demonstrated by Jesus and by others. For example, Jesus weeps over the death of his friend Lazarus in in John 11. Jesus weeps and laments for the city of Jerusalem because they did not recognize and respond to his person and ministry.

There is certainly shock demonstrated by Jesus when Peter rebukes Jesus for announcing that he will suffer and die in order to accomplish God’s mission.

Jesus becomes angry and lashes out at merchants in the temple who are selling in an area of the temple set aside for Gentile worshippers. Jesus is also angry that the business people who over charging poor worshippers who can barely afford the sacrifices they need for worship.

Jesus seems depressed or unhappy when the disciples don’t understand the way to greatness in the Kingdom is by service to each other and the world. There is depression expressed from Jesus from the cross when He cries out “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me.”
Jesus’ prayerful wrestling match with God in the Garden of Gethsemane to remove the cup of suffering from Him, could be seen as Jesus bargaining with God. The prayer ends with Jesus accepting his calling to go to the cross. This certainly allowed Jesus to care for his family and the repentant thief while suffering on the cross.

Jesus demonstrates the kind of honesty with his emotions and losses that are quite amazing. He demonstrates his humanity and honesty with God and with us so we can relate to him and to God as well. I find that equally comforting, freeing and motivating all at the same time. If Jesus can do this, then why don’t I trust God enough to do the same?

When one reads through the Psalms you find the authors of them freely expressing the pain, frustration, anger, shock, praises to God over various circumstances and losses of life. The language they use to express to their feelings to God is shocking in its honesty and intensity. That’s why I love the Psalms so much.

Honesty with God is a priority and virtue for them that helps them to connect with God and to find relief in the midst of their losses and circumstances. They express the various phases of grief so freely.

You hear their shock, anxiety, loss, anger, depression, hopelessness, as well as their praise, thanks, and hope expressed to God. Sometimes words of anxiety and anger are spoke right alongside words of hope and praise. The various Psalms enable us to express how we feel to God in the midst of the various losses and grief we feel every day.

Shouting our anger at God or acknowledging our anxiety and depression to God, will not completely fill the losses we feel at this time, but they do move us closer to the point of accepting the things we cannot change, of motivating us to change the things we can and to have the wisdom to know the difference as the wonderful Serenity prayer helps us to do.

The grieving process is always a marathon and never a sprint. The losses due to change or circumstances or deaths or personal growth is never easy. The long road from initial shock to acceptance is a roller coaster ride whether you are ready for it or not, or whether the ride is familiar or unfamiliar, you still caught off guard by it.

What is important for us as we experience the Roller Coaster ride of these times is, we have God’s promise to never abandon us. God, through his people caring for each other, provides his comfort and presence to us.
Paul reminds us of this at the beginning of 2 Corinthians 1:3-7. . .

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,
who comforts us in all our troubles,
so that we can comfort those in any trouble
with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.

For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ,
So also our comfort abounds through Christ.
If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation;
if we are comforted, it is for your comfort,
which produces in you patient endurance
of the same sufferings we suffer.

And our hope for you is firm,
because we know
that just as you share in our sufferings,
so also you share in our comfort.

Final Words
No matter what you are grieving at this time, I would encourage you be honest with the losses you feel.
I would encourage you to pay attention to the phases or stages of grief you are experiencing to give you some perspective as to where you are in your grief.

If you have not done so already, reach out for help to God, to a family member or friend, a counselor, or to me. Take advantage of the available resources locally or online to help you move toward to wellness, toward peace, toward acceptance and growth.

May the peace of God be with you in your grief through our friend, Savior and Lord who walks with us during these challenging times.
AMEN.

Song: “We lay our broken world, in sorrow at your feet”

Moment for Mission – World Literacy Day
In Afghanistan, cultural norms dictate that men often play a more central role in public life, while women and girls have more significant roles in the home. Because of this, many girls do not have equal access to education. Presbyterian World Service & Development (PWS&D), with the support of local partners, has been working to provide girls with access to high quality education.
Through summer camps, girls are informed about human rights, gender, sex, and leadership and democracy. Sadaf and Nargi participated in this summer camp, where they were inspired and excited about the great things they could achieve in the future. For the two girls, access to fair and equal education is vital for their goals and dreams; it is also essential to allow their communities to flourish. PWS&D supports equal education.

Prayers of the People

Creator of heaven and earth,
lover of each and every soul,
we are filled with gratitude for the blessings of this life.
For making us in your image to love and care for one another,
we give you thanks.
For the gift of Christ, who redeems and guides us,
and who gives us a pattern for everyday living,
we praise you.
Hear us now as we pray for situations where your love and grace are sorely needed in the world you love.

We pray for the church in this place and around the world, facing so many new challenges to respond to so many enduring needs…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

We pray for this beautiful planet, the fragile home we share with all living things…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

For those who rule in this city/town/area and the nations of the world, that they may find the wisdom and courage to do justice in the decisions they make…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

For those who serve as teachers, healers and caregivers facing new situations this fall, and for all students who return to school in very different circumstances…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

For the homeless and the hungry, for the unemployed and the anxious, and for all who have become more vulnerable through the pandemic…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

For those who mourn and those who are alone or feeling isolated…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

For the powerless and oppressed, and those caught up in destructive relationships or unjust political systems…
(Keep silence for at least 10 seconds)

And for the concerns we bear on our hearts this day…
(A longer time of silence)

Eternal God, we thank you for those who have gone ahead of us and showed us some measure of your eternal love. Keep us always in communion with you, and with your people from every time and place.
So we join our voices to theirs in the words Jesus taught us, saying:…

Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name, your kingdom come,
your will be done, on earth as in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.
Save us from the time of trial and deliver us from evil.
For the kingdom, the power, and the glory
are yours now and forever. Amen..

Special Music: Dragon school Oxford : Make me a channel of your peace

Charge and Benediction

Isaiah declared that
God gives power to the faint,
and strengthens the powerless.
Even youths will faint and be weary,
and the young will fall exhausted;
but those who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength,
they shall mount up with wings like eagles,
they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.

The Blessings of the God who watches over us
The Blessings of Jesus who walks beside us.
And the Blessings of the Holy Spirit who lives within us.
Goes with each one of us into this new week.


Prayer Partnership

Monday, September 7 We pray for members of the Ecumenical and Interfaith Relations Committee as they meet this month to further our relationships with others.

Tuesday, September 8 (World Literacy Day) We give thanks for a Presbyterian World Service & Development program that is ensuring girls in Afghanistan have access to quality education.

Wednesday, September 9 We pray for all of the students attending our theological colleges who are beginning or resuming their studies in September. May they be enriched and challenged through their studies.

Thursday, September 10 We pray for an end to forced child labour and that the efforts of those who promote Fair Trade products across many industries can be supported and strengthened.

Friday, September 11 We pray for the Rev. Fr. Martin Kalimbe, Executive Director of Theological Education by Extension in Malawi (TEEM), as he provides leadership.

Saturday, September 12 We pray for the network of coaches serving in congregational renewal and church planting support programs.

Transforming Faith and Unassuming Service

Faith in Christ transforms us and leads us to service to others without needing to be praised or thanked for it. God working through each of us, doing more for others that anything we could imagine is its own reward.

Changing our Minds

The Apostle rejoices that God changed his mind about him and called him to a leader of the Christian Church. Paul in turn encourages us to change our minds about we view other in light of God’s mercy.

The life that really is life

WE respond to God’s gift of “life that really is life” by using what God has given to us in service to others.

Costly Discipleship

Following Jesus is not an easy endeavor. It always involves dying to something that inhibits our growth in faith and strengthening our commitment to Christ’s mission.

The Great Divide

In Matthew 25 we have three parables where Jesus speaks of the trusting, risking and loving others in his name. We reflect upon serving and loving the least in our communities.